Wednesday, April 08, 2015
A friend asked me to comment on this article, in which the author, Anthony D'Ambrosio, claims that "marriage doesn't work today" and that "we" (young people) can't handle it.
I don't think this young man understands marriage very well.
He thinks sex is the most important aspect. He imagines that couples in the past did not struggle with financial problems together. After his divorce, he is hoping for "true love" which somehow counteracts all the problems that he mentions.
And he does not even consider the core task of marriage from time immemorial: raising children.
I don't think the problem is his generation, or today's technological distractions, or even student debt. Plenty of young people make excellent marriages in the customary way. They work out a way to deal with these challenges together.
Marriage is a way for two people to mature together - which makes everything else possible.