tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post8225017458078301200..comments2023-12-28T18:17:11.191-05:00Comments on Gruntled Center: The Church Can Live with Homosexual Sinners the Way it Lives With Other Kinds of SinnersGruntledhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14377809238377382438noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-30310244363952067342007-01-10T21:07:00.000-05:002007-01-10T21:07:00.000-05:00Not sure what you're pretending that I misrepresen...Not sure what you're pretending that I misrepresented, Alan. Could you be more specific?<br /><br />You may not have been aware what "separate but equal" referred to; it's common for people to sometimes just parrot legal arguments that they heard from somewhere else. Please understand that I did not mean to accuse you of understanding what you had said by "separate but equal." I simply plugged the actual legal meaning of that phrase into your argument to show you what you had actually *said.* I did not accuse you of actually meaning what you said. Could you construct an argument for ssm without relying on legal terminology which you clearly do not understand?Christianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598422593553514795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-28306548088206676452007-01-09T16:51:00.000-05:002007-01-09T16:51:00.000-05:00To Alan I think you have embellished somewhat.
I ...To Alan I think you have embellished somewhat.<br /><br />I joined the discussion only 3 days after your first comment on Gruntled's series of posts. <br /><br />Jose seems to have joined just 2 days later.<br /><br />This is not the first time I've commented at Gruntled Center but perhaps we have not met before.<br /><br />To seek useful middle ground, if it exists, between two ends of the field tends to involve some disruptive disagreement. <br /><br />That's how clarification of disagreement is reached. Without it, folks could not even say they agreed to disagree, let alone find the opportunity to make a good start in finding useful middle ground.<br /><br />I'll step off for awhile.<br /><br />To Gruntled: please email me with concerns, if any. Cheers.Chairmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10485251953071927097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-46592881437179961012007-01-09T13:47:00.000-05:002007-01-09T13:47:00.000-05:00Alan, your Wikipedia definition of troll demonstra...Alan, your Wikipedia definition of troll demonstrates that you have lapsed into ad hominem attacks and insulted me personally. You have not stated where I have misrepresented anything you have said. So bit it. I will turn the other cheek.<br /><br />Now, back to the theme of this thread. <br /><br />As I have stated elsewhere, the Church of Christ can only accept repentant sinners. No one justifying his sins can be accepted in the Church. The Church is not inclusive in this sense. It welcomes, it invites to membership, everyone without discrimination as to gender, race, social status, etc., who has repented his/her sinful life and through the symbolic act of baptism has his/her sins washed away. It excludes and excommunicates those who justify their sins. It does not excommunicate those who are simply studying what sin is. It teaches them. The unrepentant sinner is also welcomed into the church, but not as a member, but to hear the Word of God that it might convict him and have him confess his sins and turn to Christ. <br /><br />There is nothing new in this teaching. But with the interest today in being socially acceptable, politically correct and relativistic, the notions and ideology of the "world" are seeping into the varied congregations. This will bring about a separation of the "goats" from the "sheep." We see it happening in the Episcopal church and others. Though unity is preferred it cannot exist through compromise with sin. Therefore the separation is good, essential and inevitable as the Holy Spirit leads the faithful to Himself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-89069837294014390432007-01-09T12:27:00.000-05:002007-01-09T12:27:00.000-05:00"But sorry, I'm done responding to the trolls from..."But sorry, I'm done responding to the trolls from "The Opine Editorials" (Christian, Chairm, Jose, et. al.) who are only here to misrepresent what I've written. . . ." (Alan)<br /><br />I'm sorry Alan but you've laps into flagrant ad hominem attacks. I have not made a single statement on this thread and you call me a "troll" and accuse me of misrepresenting what you have said. Where on any thread have I misrepresented anything you have said? I have firmly but respectfully disagreed with your views.<br /><br />The marriage defenders at the Opine Editorials are a diverse group of thinkers from different parts of the world. It is a think tank on marriage that has amassed considerable documentation on the varied issues and arguments related to marriage and family. If you have some specific disagreement with anything we have said we are happy to politely discuss it with you.<br /><br />Let's try to maintain a courteous tone even when the view expressed is diametrically opposite one's own.<br /><br />Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-57920750898694236232007-01-08T22:58:00.000-05:002007-01-08T22:58:00.000-05:00Federal have ONLY used "Separate but equal" to ref...<i>Federal have ONLY used "Separate but equal" to refer to giving different groups of people access to different government FACILITIES.<br /></i><br /><br />Yep. And I don't much see the point of giving same-sex couples access to federal recognition of their unions, seeing as how they are inherently separate, yet somehow claim to be "equal" beyond all logical reason.<br /><br />I don't much mind bigots being bigots (sexist, racist, or otherwise) behind closed doors, but the state is certainly under no obligation to endorse it. Least of all under some laughable notion of "equality".Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14777483678013218629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-17288645518985730642007-01-08T18:05:00.000-05:002007-01-08T18:05:00.000-05:00"Sounds like "separate but equal" to me, based on ...<i>"Sounds like "separate but equal" to me, based on a particular form of sexism."</i><br /><br />Federal have ONLY used "Separate but equal" to refer to giving different groups of people access to different government FACILITIES.<br /><br />Same-sex couples have access to the same family courts as the rest of us. I can't help how something "seems" to you, Alan, but if you have a coherent argument to make that relates this discussion to the actual legal concept of separate but equal, then I'm all ears.Christianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598422593553514795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-77555066665058368552007-01-08T16:52:00.000-05:002007-01-08T16:52:00.000-05:00I knew I was offtopic to begin with -- I was simpl...I knew I was offtopic to begin with -- I was simply asking you how you could justify your "separate but equal" argument that same-sex marriages could ever equal opposite-sex marriages, seeing as how they are founded in sexism, bias, and are unequal by their very nature.<br /><br />It's not a semantic game, and I'd appreciate an answer, if you care to provide one.Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14777483678013218629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-41856450868724094042007-01-08T16:36:00.000-05:002007-01-08T16:36:00.000-05:00And yet you maintain that two husbands -- two fath...And yet you maintain that two husbands -- two fathers -- are "equal" to a husband and wife -- a mother and father.<br /><br />Sounds like "separate but equal" to me, based on a particular form of sexism.<br /><br />A fatherless (or motherless) child, is always a tragedy. Mom (or Dad's) Gender bias doesn't make it any less so.Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14777483678013218629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-30853878899505339062007-01-08T16:09:00.000-05:002007-01-08T16:09:00.000-05:00Clever rhetorical tricks indeed.
Are you not say...Clever rhetorical tricks indeed. <br /><br />Are you not saying that the homogenous marriage (non-mixed) is equal to the heterogenuous (mixed) marriage? Even while knowing that men and women are NOT equal to each other?<br /><br />The color of a man's skin is as irrelevant to the question of Marriage as his "sexual orientation" is. Being gay doesn't make him any less equal to any other man -- nor does it in any way make him "equal" to a wife.<br /><br />Separate is NOT equal, Alan.Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14777483678013218629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-45325870232459858622007-01-08T15:47:00.000-05:002007-01-08T15:47:00.000-05:00Alan: I have no idea who VGR is, but are you awar...Alan: <i>I have no idea who VGR is, but are you aware that you're making precisely the same argument that was made in favor of anti-miscegenation laws? </i><br /><br />+VGR is the gay Episcopal bishop of New Hampshire.<br /><br />Second, am I really making that argument? Consider it for a moment:<br /><br />1. Without SSM, any man can marry any woman, regardless of either one's sexual orientation. Gay men can marry straight lesbian or bisexual women, and vice versa. Sexual Orientation is not asked, or even relevant.<br /><br />2. Without SSM, no man can marry any other man, regardless of anyone's orientation.<br /><br />I fail to see how this is in any way similiar to miscegenation law.<br /><br />On the other hand, by advocating for SSM, you appear to be saying that:<br /><br />1. Two men, if they are gay, are equal to one man and one woman, in marriage.<br /><br />2. Two fathers, or two mothers, if they are gay or lesbian, are equal to one mother and one father, even though it is a biological absurdity to even suggest such a thing.<br /><br />IN short, it is YOU who are making the sexist argument that "separate IS equal -- when we're gay".<br /><br />My argument is that men are equal to men, and women are equal to women, regardless of either's orientation. Therefore two women can never "equal" two men, much less one man and one woman. Why? Because under the law, men and women are NOT equal. Therefore, separate is not equal either.<br /><br />You seem to be the one advocating miscegenation, not me. The word itself means "to mix", and yet you are the one who doesn't want to mix with the opposite sex. <br /><br />Sounds like a simple case of gender bias to me.Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14777483678013218629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-89567546107221652572007-01-08T15:00:00.000-05:002007-01-08T15:00:00.000-05:00There is one human race and its nature is two-sexe...There is one human race and its nature is two-sexed; and the nature of human generativity, and of human community, is both-sexed.<br /><br />Marriage arises from this. If we need to walk together through scriptural evidence to show you the evidence this is so, then, I think that to satisify your complaint would be a divergence of irrelevancy.<br /><br />And I say that with my heart in my hand, Alan.<br /><br /><i> You may not like the fact that I believe that God's Word should be the ultimate authority on these matters and you may not like the interpretations I've provided, but to simply dismiss my beliefs out of hand is, at the very, very least, impolite.</i><br /><br />I am glad you profess the belief that the Word matters very much.<br /><br />But, as I said earlier, the more charitable description of your remarks is that you have simply misread Scripture and a correct reading can be attained. But it does not begin with your own revelations, which put aside the Word, as I think your misreading must. You may claim the authority of Scripture but really, I think, you claim the authority of your own axioms.<br /><br />I thought the discussion was about Gruntled's topic, but you seem to wish to change the topic to detailed textproofing. It is a necessary topic, but I did not think that was the discussion here.<br /><br />I am sorry to read that you feel that to be impolite.<br /><br />* * *<br /><br />Alan, with respect, your opening "Um... " is a classic example of impoliteness, when done in person, no less so online.<br /><br />Let's wipe the slate clean and begin again with the topic.<br /><br />Gruntled, if I have misunderstood the topic of this discussion, I would welcome correction and your clarification. Thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-85801192629977175812007-01-08T13:22:00.000-05:002007-01-08T13:22:00.000-05:00I'm responding to Alan's question:
Would we as a ...I'm responding to Alan's question:<br /><br /><i>Would we as a church develop policies, procedures and ministries for people suffering with alcoholism without inviting them into full participation in that development? </i><br /><br />Depends what you meant by an "alcoholic." If you mean, should the church include the town drunk and other alcoholics who deny that they have a problem, then I don't think so. <br /><br />OTOH, the church should obviously include alcoholics who have managed to stop drinking. One could also reasonably argue that the church should include persons struggling with alcoholism, i.e. that recognize that their drinking is a problem and wish help to quit.<br /><br />Why invite the town drunk? Those that want to continue to drink heavily, can do so without the church's permission. Sure, human groupthink kicks in and the alcoholics that don't want to quit might get upset to have fewer people like them around. They might also resent the implication that something is wrong with them. But the program is for those that want to quit, and they shouldn't let themselves get bogged down by the arguments of those that don't want to quit. THe program gives support to people that want to quit. If someone wants support to continue their drinking, there are plenty of bars in town.<br /><br />You guys can decide for yourselves how far Alan's analogy extends to homosexuality. But if the world were full of people like the main character from "the crying game," that IRA straight guy that loved a man but had no sexual attraction to him, you could bet that the web would be clogged with therapists offering cures for heterosexuality. Would you object to that, Alan?Christianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598422593553514795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-15303446529302675142007-01-08T10:29:00.000-05:002007-01-08T10:29:00.000-05:00First, I do not accept that it is impossible for s...First, I do not accept that it is impossible for same-sex attracted persons to love and marry a member of the opposite sex. We've all seen it happen too many times (i.e. even +VGR was married for 12 years and even after abandoning his family for the gay life, still describes his previous marriage as 'happy'). Limiting who you can love to the shape of their genitals is just so... limiting. <br /><br />Second, I do not accept that "separate is equal". Two men or two women can no more equal one of each than two apples or two oranges could ever hope to equal a fruit salad (n.p.i.). Gender bias is no excuse for separatism, not does it justify the inherent inequality of "Heather's two mommies (and zero daddy)".<br /><br />Therefore, even gay people can and do marry equally -- as proven by +VGR and every other gay and lesbian person who has married a member of the opposite sex. But when someone says that gender bias is okay -- and that separate MUST be equal, they're merely fooling themselves. VGR's marriage WAS equal. His new relationship with his boyfriend is not -- because separate never can be.<br /><br />With respect to Marriage, the problem for gay and lesbian people is NOT that they are treated unequally because of their orientation -- it's that they ARE treated equally, <i>despite</i> their orientation.Martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14777483678013218629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-20384937872383964622007-01-08T00:44:00.000-05:002007-01-08T00:44:00.000-05:00Knowing that these are conclusions is helpful. I ...Knowing that these are conclusions is helpful. I was expecting a more comprehensive description of the matters at hand. <br /><br />I think the question I am working on is how theologically we interpet the range of culturally ambivalent sexual practices included in scripture (child brides, arranged marriages, celibacy, polygamy, concubinage, divorce, prostitution, intermarriage with foreigners, etc.) and areas of near silence (masturbation, pornography and, I would say, a range of gay practices). There is no "Biblical teaching of marriage." There are ways that Christians use the models of scripture to more faithfully follow God.<br /><br />A remarkable thing about the Bible is that there are almost no marriage ceremonies described. Our cultural understandings of marriage (Tom Hanks meets Meg Ryan) are radically different from the range described in scripture. I do not think there is a single ideal. I think there are a range of ideals, with some attributes which are encouraged (faithfulness). This allows us to discern sinfulness, but it is not as we have a checklist of good and bad practices.<br /><br />I do appreciate these initial conclusions and hope you do more in-depth analysis (not a blog's intent, I know).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-72071268760730139762007-01-06T07:35:00.000-05:002007-01-06T07:35:00.000-05:00Correction: ... you have set aside the authority o...Correction: ... you have set aside the authority of Scripture and have provided a misreading ...Chairmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10485251953071927097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-26797290237705911612007-01-06T07:34:00.000-05:002007-01-06T07:34:00.000-05:00Unfortunately, often these debates are cast as dif...<i>Unfortunately, often these debates are cast as differences between how we view Biblical authority. That is, it's a debate between "Bible-believing Christians" and not.</i><br /><br />From what I have read in your comments, you have set aside the authority of Scripture and have not provided a misreading which could not be characterized as "conservative" let alone as competent.<br /><br /><i>I hope I've demonstrated that it is possible to believe that the Bible is authoritative, to take Scripture very seriously and yet not believe that Scripture prohibits loving committed gay relationships.</i><br /><br />A sexualized relationship between two men would be nonmarital, always.<br /><br />Mislabeling such a relationship, "marriage", would not make a substantive change to its nonmarital character.<br /><br />There is no scriptural basis for such mislabeling, let alone for condoning such sexual behavior. Quite the contrary.<br /><br />A loving friendship could be very committed without the sexual misbehavior. <br /><br />If the friendship was chiefly characterized as "gay" -- as per affirmation of a sexual identity that is neither condoned nor is marital -- then it would fall outside of the middle ground that I think Gruntled has proposed.<br /><br />Is it really a middle ground within a Christian church? Based on tolerance for sinners, yes, I think it is. Based on your misreading of Scripture, I suppose not.<br /><br />Now, if the issue is really about non-Church members being tolerated, well, that's much easier to address with non-scriptural reasons. But tolerance is not as vaunted as preference.<br /><br />Gruntled, the problem with the middle ground, as you've staked it out in terms of your Church, is that it implies more than one person designating a beneficiary -- such as entailed in a nonsexualized friendship of two women residing together longterm. <br /><br />Unfortunately, as in the non-Church context, civil union has come to mean treating nonmarriage as if it was marriage.<br /><br />Likewise, the blessing of friendships has transformed in many churches into the condoning of sexualized gay-identified relationships as if these were marriages of two wives or two husbands. I think it adds more confusion and that wouldn't serve the individuals in those relationships.<br /><br />Also, the erosion to marriage is communal and not based on the homosexual participation rate in civil union. If civil union is attached directly to marital status, as in Vermont or in New Jersey, then it will hamper efforts to strengthen the social institution's standing in society.<br /><br />And to do so with such little benefit to society raises the problem of proportionality in terms of public policy.Chairmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10485251953071927097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-87430934221414357562007-01-04T21:09:00.000-05:002007-01-04T21:09:00.000-05:00I agree with Hunsiger almost all the way. We part...I agree with Hunsiger almost all the way. We part company at point 51:<br />From these considerations, three points are especially relevant: (i) a principle of discrete toleration for ambiguous situations that are improper but not intolerable, (ii) a principle of full and mutual commitment as a precondition for sexual intercourse, and (iii) a principle of covenantal union in fidelity that is public, exclusive and permanent.<br /><br />I think a covenantal union opening understood to cover sexual acts goes beyond "discrete toleration." But I am open to argument here.Gruntledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14377809238377382438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-21771865940281179192007-01-04T19:57:00.000-05:002007-01-04T19:57:00.000-05:00In 2001, when the church was debating amendment A ...In 2001, when the church was debating amendment A (which failed), Professor George Hunsinger of Princeton came up with what he said was a third way, perhaps it could be considered a centrist position. I didn't like it much, but it seemed to allow for covenantal same-sex partnerships and no bar to ordination because of that. This is from the Presbyterian Outlook:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pres-outlook.com/HTML/hunsinger112501.html">There Is a Third Way: Theses for the Crisis in Our Church</a><br /><br />What differences, Gruntled, would you have with Hunsinger's proposal?John Shuckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00798753206614838161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-50280113654999908912007-01-04T17:19:00.000-05:002007-01-04T17:19:00.000-05:00The official position of a church, which is embrac...The official position of a church, which is embraced by a majority of members, elders, and ministers, is by definition not "right wing" or "left wing." The right wing position, which I reject, is that homosexual practice is a much worse sin than others. The left wing which, which I reject, is that homosexual practice is no sin at all. That is why I call this a centrist position. <br /><br />The offer to consider committed same-sex relationships whose members honor the standards of the church and who are at least trying to be celibate is a major concession to the left.Gruntledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14377809238377382438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-67612769462417170342007-01-04T17:07:00.000-05:002007-01-04T17:07:00.000-05:00I am not sure I understand this statemnent:
"...w...I am not sure I understand this statemnent:<br /><br />"...whether two homosexuals living together in a committed relationship can be good enough if they acknowledge that they should try to restrain their sexual practice."<br /><br />You may have made this clear, elsewhere, but I am not sure when you say restrain if that means celibacy or to restrict sexual activity to the relationship?John Shuckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00798753206614838161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-64909831574783625922007-01-04T15:42:00.000-05:002007-01-04T15:42:00.000-05:00Alan could not be more right to note that you have...Alan could not be more right to note that you have been gentle and well-mannered, Gruntled. But I have to agree with hiim that your position doesn't seem to depart very radically from the right except the hard-to-imagine scenario you propose of loving yet celibate gay relationships. I don't see what sort of gospel joy this would bring to gay and lesbian members of our mainline denominations.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-89865083309996945232007-01-04T14:23:00.000-05:002007-01-04T14:23:00.000-05:00Most of the comments above have been answer by oth...Most of the comments above have been answer by other commentators, to whom I am grateful. I do wish to respond to a few points.<br /><br />I am offering conclusions, not assumptions. The conclusion that I offer that the Bible says homosexual practice, though not homosexual orientation, is a sin is not my bias, nor is it a right-wing argument. Rather, it is the official position of the Presbyterian Church, as well as that of most Christian denominations on earth. This view is also embraced by a solid majority of Presbyterian members, elders, and ministers. <br /><br />The standard of success that I offer is described in an earlier post, "Gay vs. Ex-Gay Christians 3: What is Success?", which is linked to in this post.<br /><br />I am proposing that divorced and homosexual church officers have the same status. I would not call that second class; in any case, I am proposing that they be the same.<br /><br />I don't see how celibacy is comparable to divorce (or homosexual practice) at all.<br /><br />I don't really understand Jonathan's objections. As far as I can tell, my proposal that the church could live with committed homosexual couples who were trying to control their sexual practice is a new one. If there are good resources on this subject, I would be very interested to see them.Gruntledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14377809238377382438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-23755770074968127502007-01-04T13:30:00.000-05:002007-01-04T13:30:00.000-05:00I'm disappointed by these posts. A church sociolo...I'm disappointed by these posts. A church sociologist gives his impressions of "hasbians," uses sin like it is a list of naughty acts, and seems to support a sanctioned relationship of some sort, but where two homosexuals living together are to “acknowledge that they should try to restrain their sexual practice.” There are great resources on these sources—please help us to find them. I know blogging is not research, but please give us more to work with.<br /><br />I also think the divorce analogy is a poor one. The better analogy might be celibacy, which Paul explicitly espouses as an ideal for married life, as does much of the OT (in the sense that people are to be ritually pure during certain times, etc.). How do we balance ideals versus life as it is practiced in diverse cultures? This is a better question, and one that I hope will be addressed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-24680060866193609442007-01-04T12:36:00.000-05:002007-01-04T12:36:00.000-05:00"Today, would the Church ever structure a conversa..."Today, would the Church ever structure a conversation about racial issues without including members of racial minorities, not only as participants, but as the leaders in the dialogue? It's simply amazing to me how many straight people presume to be experts about homosexuality. That is certainly NOT a centrist approach."<br /><br />How would you propose to do that?<br /><br />Gays in the church fall generally into a few categories<br /><br />- out and proud and pushing hard for change<br />- out but gay rights are not the focus of their lives<br />- in the closet and hoping not to have their secret found<br /><br />It's the latter group that I'm concerned for. I believe that the vast majority of already-ordained gay officers fall into that group (with a few well known exceptions in the first two groups). Those in the latter group who are not ordained yet but hope to be someday simply CANNOT come out yet if they want to keep that hope viable (at least in the short term).<br /><br />How can you involve someone as a self-acknowledged member of a minority without potentially harming their future when that acknowledgement automatically makes them a 2nd class citizen under the rules?<br /><br />The stakes are higher here than they were in the past, where members of a minority were for the most part identifiable on sight.<br /><br />Having said all of that, I still have deep bruises from past efforts on behalf of a minority that I do not belong to. Those battles caused me to withdraw from that support for years.Mark Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06744333045874641836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-24000558315383052852007-01-04T12:20:00.000-05:002007-01-04T12:20:00.000-05:00Thank you for identifying repentance as the mark o...Thank you for identifying repentance as the mark of the Christian leader, rather than virtue. Part of the misconception that feeds the pride that feeds our conflict is that believing in Christ and following Him makes us "good little boys and girls." No one is good but God alone-- we are all sinners. The leader leads by confession, repentance, and obedience that leads to a changed life which witnesses to God's grace, not the individual's purity.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com