tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post4908422057250323116..comments2023-12-28T18:17:11.191-05:00Comments on Gruntled Center: Jon and Kate Put Show Before FamilyGruntledhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14377809238377382438noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-38822013690858794082009-06-27T09:42:16.022-04:002009-06-27T09:42:16.022-04:00Alas, you're probably right about Jon and Kate...Alas, you're probably right about Jon and Kate's house belonging to the show, so the arrangement no longer seems self-sacrificing. On the whole, though, I think that "bird-nesting" is a good step toward helping children cope with divorce. The more that stays the same the better. I also find myself wondering if this kind of arrangement might ultimately lead to more reconciliations since both former-partners literally get the chance to come home and remember what they're missing out on.Katienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-31119925245688195162009-06-26T23:16:54.375-04:002009-06-26T23:16:54.375-04:00I have read about this kind of "bird-nesting,...I have read about this kind of "bird-nesting," but I did not know of a real case. <br /><br />With Jon and Kate, I am guessing that the house belongs to the show.Gruntledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14377809238377382438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-11087288461777826592009-06-26T21:32:11.048-04:002009-06-26T21:32:11.048-04:00I haven't followed their show, but I did read ...I haven't followed their show, but I did read an interesting bit that Jon and Kate have in common with Sandra Tsing Loh. Jon and Kate, like Tsing Loh, keep the kids in the same house while the parents rotate out. For Jon and Kate, I sure that the logistics of shuffling around 8 kids makes this the obvious choice. I was surprised, though, when I read about the arrangement in Tsing Loh's household. Her article was the first I'd ever heard of such a living arrangement post-divorce. Is this a new trend we're seeing in upper-middle divorces?Katienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-85577221945163690142009-06-26T07:52:50.627-04:002009-06-26T07:52:50.627-04:00I absolutely agree with you, and have been telling...I absolutely agree with you, and have been telling people that. I'm sure they'll continue producing the show, but the ratings have already seriously taken a nosedive.<br /><br />I don't know how to feel about it all. Of course everyone and their mother has an opinion on who is right and who was wrong, but ultimately, based on what I saw and generally what I know from class, there wasn't anything going on they couldn't work out, especially with all the money they've been making from the show providing options like excellent counselors.<br /><br />It makes me really sad, because it's yet another example for people to cite now; although the ratings drop indicates the truth that no one -really- wants that and it's -not- all the same to everyone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-78592840026332803532009-06-24T23:15:53.395-04:002009-06-24T23:15:53.395-04:00Unfortunately, I suspect that, if they produce the...Unfortunately, I suspect that, if they produce the show right, it will continue for some time, now with a "hey, except for the eight kids thing, we're just like every other American family!" angle. This kind of commodification and marketing are all too common.TallCoolOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01034603758908015626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-23807484758475972112009-06-24T17:11:21.389-04:002009-06-24T17:11:21.389-04:00this is really insightful!!! I never thought about...this is really insightful!!! I never thought about that.Frizzballhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13326011937143267918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-13556097146169323822009-06-24T10:20:51.476-04:002009-06-24T10:20:51.476-04:00Love the +/- Kate commentLove the +/- Kate commentRachel Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16201378.post-64001770886307751602009-06-24T08:58:42.520-04:002009-06-24T08:58:42.520-04:00Here here, Beau Weston.Here here, Beau Weston.Terena '99noreply@blogger.com